{"id":2873,"date":"2011-07-08T17:11:57","date_gmt":"2011-07-08T23:11:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.chasclifton.com\/?p=2873"},"modified":"2011-07-08T17:14:41","modified_gmt":"2011-07-08T23:14:41","slug":"starting-over-as-a-virgin-or-else","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.chasclifton.com\/?p=2873","title":{"rendered":"Starting Over as a Virgin (Or Else)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When I was a teenager, I remember hearing some slightly older female friends cracking up over the line, &#8220;Let&#8217;s go to California and start over again as virgins.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Only it should be &#8220;Toronto,&#8221; not &#8220;California,&#8221; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sunnewsnetwork.ca\/sunnews\/canada\/archives\/2011\/07\/20110707-100203.html\">the reason being that you do not want your Muslim husband to beat you.<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Lina, 20, is originally from Afghanistan and isn&#8217;t surprised the surgery is now available in Canada.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My friend heard that it was going on in Saudi Arabia because people fear their husbands,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If  she doesn&#8217;t get it done, then they are going to find out that she  wasn&#8217;t pure on the wedding night, but if she does get the surgery done,  they could find out that she wasn&#8217;t pure and got this surgery in secret,  which would be very bad.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>File under &#8220;Desert Monotheisms.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I was a teenager, I remember hearing some slightly older female friends cracking up over the line, &#8220;Let&#8217;s go to California and start over again as virgins.&#8221; Only it should be &#8220;Toronto,&#8221; not &#8220;California,&#8221; the reason being that you do not want your Muslim husband to beat you. 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